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Friday, March 05, 2010

Reflection

Assalammu'alaikum beloved friends. I hope your day has been great.

I am in a mood for reflection now, and I might just as well type it out here.

I came to conclude that no matter how much I try to make things perfect, it won't be. And the harder I try to perfect something, more imperfections will appear. The only way to outdo this is to start loving the imperfects.

I came to conclude, that no matter what happens, it's you or rather me who's going to pay to redeem the consequences. And no goodwill will eliminate the bad consequences that come by. This might explain why some bad people get good returns, and good people get bad returns.

I came to conclude that there is no such thing as LOGIC. Even mathematical formulas have no logic! What more biological/nature? Or science for that matter. So forget about LOGIC.

I came to conclude that noone will appreciate us unless we show that we are idiots who follow stupid instructions and abide by senseless regulations. We must be at work showing everyone we are busy even if it's just merely staring at the computer screen emailing blog entries and we must do it from half hour before official working hour and preferably extend till half hour after the official working hour.

I came to conclude that no job will be given when you asked, and only come without a break when you already have to much to strike off. I came to conclude that the cliche is true. You won't appreciate until it is long gone, you do not know the value until it's no longer. And most of the time, you will only be remembered when you're right there standing within their eyesight and forgotten soon after you're gone.

I came to conclude that human will forever be skeptical no matter how much they brag about their openness. Human do not repay kindness with kindness. Some repay kindness with ignorance. Some repay kindness with silence. And some repay kindness by running away saying they couldn't bring themselves to face the kind man after what he did. Some repay kindness with envious revenge.

I came to conclude that no two words mean the same to two different people unless the two sit down, talk, and most importantly listen to what the other has got to say without interruption, and in return, given the chance to say what he/she has got to say.

Bottom line, communication is the key. Communication is not merely talking, it is listening. The latter having higher importance that the other. And a communication break down is always a killer and sometimes fatal.

Assalammu'alaikum.

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