"Pain in the arse" BF vs "Bullshit" BF

A Pain in The Arse bf would tell you honestly what he has in mind which gives you the right to tell him off what you had in mind and end with a laugh in each others' arms.
A Bullshit bf would either lie through his teeth or keep silent which leaves to wondering what he has in mind, leading you to silent because you end up not knowing what to ask because if you had asked the wrong thing, you'd end up getting a hell of a lecture and cry to sleep.
A Pain in The Arse bf could tell you how ugly and stupid you really are, and looked at a hottie past by and tell how big her boobs are compared to yours, and next would be your turn to say how ugly and stupid he is and looked at a hottie and compare how firm his butt was compared to his, and stare at each other before ending up doing stupid faces and joke about each other and end up snuggling in each others' arms knowing you're loved deeply and honestly even though there are other hotties around.
A Bullshit bf would look at a hottie, spill the beans that she's hot, and you stare at him.. ending with him telling you how hot you are even when you're not and start critisizing the hottie who just passed emphasizing you're hotter than her. And when you are looking at another hottie, he would resign to say he's not good enough and didnt bother to even try to be better or show his worth.
A Pain in The Arse bf would tell you that you cannot touch his things, or be his pillion/passenger when you're just a friend and continues to tell so when you're his gf.
A Bullshit bf would tell you it's okay to be his pillion/passenger or touch his things when you're just a friend and suddenly say it's not okay to do that when you're his gf.
A Pain in The Arse bf would not care to help when you're just a friend and tells her he'd rather help his gf for special benefits.
A Bullshit bf would go all out to help when you're his friend, making time and being there for you. But suddenly had no time to do so and start pointing out negative things to emphasize that it is your fault when you're his gf.

PS: More to come, can't think anymore...