Our 1st Month

Assalammu'alaikum,

How time flies, it has already been a month since I am his wife. MasyaAllah, the greatness of being his wife has been all good, Alhamdulillah.

He eats whatever I cook even when it failed. He will only correct me after he has finished eating what is on his plate. There are not many men out there who would react the way he did. He smiled, eat an finish his plate. I did say sorry midway because it was too diluted, he calmly just say, "Yes, it is".

We continued eating- me with so much guilt. He was already hungry, he must have been angry that food wasnt tasting good. I waited, and finally asked, "what did i do wrong?" He smiled, look at me in the eyes and told me, "its okay, next time just add more chilli to blend". I am just so lucky, aren't I?

He has treated me with so much patience, and with so much love. I couldnt possibly ask for more. I just hope and pray that we will continue to be patient and love each other more as our marriage grow.

He is on his 8th day of being cigarette/nicotine/tar free. He has done so well, and I am so proud of him. I hope he stays and remain as a non-smoker, for the better. He smells so much better, he looks better, and he can only be better for me, and for us.

This day, I hope and can only ask for good health, better wealth & abudance of love and happiness for him, and for us.

Do pray for us. We appreciate it.

Oh, and my Uncle, my favorite Uncle, he has a third stroke relapse. He is currently in TTSH, i hope he recovers soon.

Do pray for him too.

And my mom, alhamdulillah.. Her sugar in blood level is within control and is in the normal range now. Alhamdulillah, may my parents both always be in good health and always be with much happiness.
Do pray for them too.

Now, let's just say I am 3min late for a tuition slot. I hope she still remember what we did last week. I need to test her quickly to recap before moving forward.
And yes, why not? Pray for her too, may she has a clearer understanding and do well for her exams & may she make both her parents proud. InsyaAllah..

Amin! Thank you~

Yours Truly,
The Happy Wife, Daughter & Tutor.

Wassalam.

To being smoke-free

Assalammu'alaikum family & friends,

I hope the week has been kind to all of you, as it has for me. Alhamdulillah.

Its Friday, and may we always be blessed with love, happiness and health.

My husband has finally decided to put the cigarrette out for good. This sudden decision following the latest rule by law with regards to areas where it will be prohibited to smoke, and this includes corridors, void decks, sheltered linkways and bridges among the many listed.

Alhamdulillah, his rough journey started on the night of 14th January, and today is his 4th day. May he persevere and stay strong to fight the withdrawal symptoms. I remember how I went through mine just 3.5 years ago. I struggled a lot as he was still smoking then. I curb all temptations to have just one last puff. Alhamdulillah I managed, and I have since became a non-smoker. I hope he too will succeed in becoming a non-smoker for good. It is afterall for everyone's well-being, and it would be much easier if we are blessed to have a child soon.

I am defintely a proud wife to have a husband who is man enough to quit smoking. I hope he can reach the optimum 100days to confirm his status as a non-smoker. Please do pray for him to be strong.

I am but free. I have been packed with activities all week! I secretly wished I could just split myself and get more work done and out of the way, and I guess that is everyone's fancy dream too.

Last year, I was tutoring thrice a week. This year, I am tutoring four times a week. I have more sidelines this year, prayers for better cashflow doesn't come free. One has to work to earn it - one can only reap what one sow, right?

As I am approaching the front door of my office, I will have to put my phone away. I shall type away again, sometime soon to fill up your day.

Until I blog again, do continue praying for us.

Yours Truly,
The Proud Wife

Wassalam